When I was a kid I dreamt of growing up to be various things. Age 5 I wanted to play up front for Tottenham and England. Oh the goals I’d score!
When I was 7 I wanted to be a super hero. Intelligently, I worked in inspector gadget type technology on my wheelchair. To enhance my capabilities. I’d be able to fly off with the most beautiful girl hitching a ride.
When I was 10 I would be the England football manager. Clearly some realism had kicked in here. You know the thing about my lack of ability to walk, let alone score goals at Wembley. Yes, manager played to my strengths and my childlike dreams.
When I was 14 I decided I’d be better in politics. Evidently the social model barriers were already pi**ing me off. Plus world poverty, hunger, disease and conflict needed my keen eye for solutions.
It’s nice to remember those dreams. Just like it’s nice to chat to my nieces about their dreams now. Kids have fascinating imaginations. The world is there for the taking. We are the heroes to save the world!
Then you head out to achieve those lofty goals. And BOOM! Obstacles. We’ve all faced this scenario. We don’t get into the college we wanted. We don’t get the first or 20th job we apply for. We don’t win the heart of ‘the one’.
I could go on about ways to overcome this. But that’s for my life coaching articles. Here I want to point to the difficulties many disabled children face in dreaming big. With negative media portrayal, no real disabled superheroes, and low coverage of disabled achievers and role models – the bar has been set too low, for too long.
Meet Dan White (and the Department of Ability)
I met Dan virtually a couple of years ago on a Disability Horizons podcast. He’d had a couple of interviews for his new inclusive comic series. Including one on mainstream tv.
The comic was inspired by his daughter Emily who is disabled. She stars in the ‘Department of Ability’ stories. With her powerful wheelchair ways. Sounds familiar right?
I’ve watched Dan grow in his self belief, embracing the media challenges, and really pushing his message. One that resonates with me so much. A message that says ‘why the bloody hell are disabled kids not in kids stories’?
The comic has since had global attention. Their theme tune was performed live with Dan and Emily on stage – in America! So rock and roll.
In this podcast episode Dan and I catch up about his journey, the challenges and dreams he has for the project. It’s great to be reminded that we all should have dreams to strive for.
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Here’s the iTunes version.
Thank you for listening guys!
See you next time!
– World Changer @ martynsibley.com
– Captain of Inclusion @ disabilityhorizons.com
– Author @ ‘Everything is Possible‘
– Motivational Speaker @ pro-motivate.com/speaker/martyn-sibley
– Adviser @ Governments/Businesses/Charities